Sunday, September 14, 2008

A fun Saturday

We had a great day today! Everyone woke up early so we got dressed and went to Cracker Barrel! Yes, my diet went out the window today!! Madi and Mallory look so serious playing checkers with Daddy.



They know exactly what they are doing by making you drag kids through the candy filled store to get to the table! After buying our wonderful Wood Wicker Pumpkin Pie candle,4 Christmas ornaments, Halloween bowl,and candy, we went here:



We decided at the last minute to do Fun Spot and they were clearly not dressed for it but who cares, they had a ball!





Now off to bed for a nap! They love racing upstairs, and I could not resist the picture. They race up on their hands and knees and I had just taken off their dresses to put on nap clothes! Too sweet!

Friday, September 12, 2008

Finger paint

What to do on a rainy day? Daddy bought the girls finger paint, and immediately I had a Kate Gosselin moment. I thought to myself, how messy! What was he thinking!? Then I decided to let them go in the shower and get as messy as they wanted! They had so much fun and it kept them busy for about 1 hour! When they were finished with their masterpiece I just turned on the shower and we watched the water turn into colors as it ran off of their sweet little happy faces.



Thursday, September 11, 2008

Birthday girl

Happy 9th birthday my sweet girl!

This morning I woke up and realized that this is your first birthday that I have ever missed. I will not be able to tie your birthday balloons to your chair, or lay out your presents and cards beside your cake. I will not be able to take goodies to your class at school, or pick you up from school and take you for a special birthday lunch. Ashlyn, I can not tell you how much we miss you here! I miss your contagious laugh, and your silliness. I miss the way you walk in the door from school and your sisters go running to you while screaming your name. I miss the way you love your little sisters, and the way they love you back. I miss you singing so loud in your room that I hear you outside. I miss all of your little performances, and your fashion shows you have with Madi. We just miss you! One thing that keeps me going is that you are happy, and that I know I will see you very soon. I want you to be happy, because this is the only thing that reassures me that letting you stay in Greenville was the right decision. Not for me, but for you. I hope you enjoy your presents, you should receive them in the mail today, and we will see you in a couple of weeks. I love you and Happy Birthday!
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Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Sweet Mallory

Mallory is getting so big. As a baby she would never let you rock her or cuddle. Never did this child fall asleep on her Daddy's chest. She wanted to be turned around and see everything going on. Now all of a sudden she wants to be rocked every night. I love it! When she is ready for bed she will grab her blankie and point to the stairs saying,"bed,bed, night-night". Such an easy child to put to bed. Now Madi, that is another post. She would stay up until 10 if I let her, and still wake up at 7! It is amazing how different all 4 of my girls are. No two are alike. This definitely keeps things interesting!
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Tuesday, September 9, 2008

More from Naples...

Daddy with his girls.
Madi and Mallory before hitting the beach!
Mallory loved the sand!
Madi,Uncle Alex and Gavin finding shells.

Sunday, September 7, 2008

A sister sleepover

When we were in Greenville 2 weeks ago Ashlyn and Madi had a "sister sleepover". Madi went to spend the night with Ashlyn at Robbie's house. How funny does that sound! My daughter spent the night with her sister at my ex-husbands house. Dear Lord!

They had so much fun and Robbie and his wife Robin were so sweet to entertain Madi for the night. It was so funny when Robin(Ashlyn's step mother) called me and said that they were fighting alot at bedtime so they were going to need to separate them. Welcome to my world sweetie! They did have a great time, and Madi loved seeing "Sissy's room in Greenville". I am so thankful that Robbie and I have such a great relationship. This makes it so much easier on Ashlyn.

Ashlyn, I will see you soon sweet heart. Have fun tomorrow night at Mimi's for piano lessons! She may be your grandmother, but you still have to listen and PAY ATTENTION! I may be in Florida, but Mommy is always watching you (just like Santa) I have eyes everywhere.

Ashlyn and Madi playing dress-up. Ashlyn is growing up so fast.




Thursday, September 4, 2008

It's a great day!

Another successful day at preschool, followed by a very long nap, and topped off with a stroll in our new jogger stroller!

Why in the world did I not buy this thing 2 yrs ago? I have been pushing around this double stroller that weighs about 2 tons and is long as my husband is tall, 6'4 that is. We returned the old one (glad I kept the box) and got this one for only $35 more. That is the best money I have ever spent. It even has a plug with speakers for my IPod. I know my sister is laughing right now and saying,"what is it with you and the ipods!" Our baby swing also came with a plug for an ipod. We never used it, but it was pretty cool to have. This stroller feels like I am pushing 20 lbs. Wonderful. I walked 1 hr, and I could have kept going, but Allie was getting fussy. Yes, she was in her new BabyBjorn carrier. I wish I could have gotten a picture of me pushing 2 kids and carrying one. This weight better start falling off quick! 3 lbs since Saturday, I'll take it!


This picture of the girls was taken on my phone in the dark garage, so it is not the best quality, but as you can see, the girls love the new stroller. I did hear toward the end of the ride, "get your feet off my side,MALLORY and quit touching my juice cup!"


Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Naples

Hey everyone. We had a great Labor Day weekend. We were in Naples again, and we did get very heavy rain from the ever sweet, Gustav! It was not pretty at all. The kids did get to swim the very last day, so here are some pictures.



Friday, August 29, 2008

Diamonds are a girls best friend



Thank you so much I Love Pink! She just gave me my first Blog award! How sweet is that! I absolutely love reading her blog. She has a precious little girl and is pregnant with her second. OK, she doesn't know what the sex is, but I always bet on PINK. Check her out here http://ilovepink-pinky.blogspot.com/ I still don't know how to do the linky thing, sad I know. You will immediately see why I am so drawn to her blog. Just check out her daughters smocked dresses complete with a matching bow. Love it!


You are supposed to post about the award and link the one who awarded you. Then you award 7 others and let them know they have received a diamond!

I pass this award to the following:

http://six-sules.blogspot.com/
http://kissmypinktiara.blogspot.com/
http://thekittenwithin.blogspot.com/
http://greenmagsterpie.blogspot.com/
http://sophieshope08.blogspot.com/
http://amanda-familynews.blogspot.com/
http://luv-a-cop.blogspot.com/ :) my sister

Preschool


Today was Madi's first day of preschool, and well, you can see how the morning started out. She was so afraid that she would have nap time that she could not even pull herself together. When we pulled up to our church she screams,"this is church!" From then on out it was smooth sailing. We were even more excited when Miss.Jesse greeted her at the door. Miss.Jesse was her assistant soccer coach at camp this past summer. Oh, and the room had 2 cash registers! Even better.

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Just to clear something up

I just wanted to clear something up about my last post, Ashlyn living with her father. This decision was not made while I was in SC for 2 weeks.I know the way I posted it, it sounded like that, but this was a decision that I had prayed about and spoke with our pastor about over a month ago. I did not make the decision over night, I just wasn't ready to talk about it a month ago when it all happened. I have always known that Ashlyn loves me and no one will ever take that bond away. Ashlyn is my first born child, and was a miracle from birth. When I began praying about this difficult decision, my prayer was that I do God's will, and even if it was not the best for me, I wanted it to be the best decision for her. I did very much want to keep her for selfish reasons, but my heart knew what was the right thing to do. Ashlyn may want to come back home one day, and she knows she can, but I have peace with my decision and that is what I prayed for. Peace. I talk to her several times a day, and she is always with cousins,grandparents and sounds so happy. This makes the pain easier to deal with. It is by far the hardest thing I have ever done, but I know one day she will look back and know that her Mommy loved her that much that I put her happiness in front of mine.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Back home


We are back! I had so much fun over the past two weeks, and was definitely spoiled by having all of my family in the same town! I spent time with my grandparents,cousins,nephews and nieces, sisters, mom and dad! It was great! I feel very blessed to have such a big family, and I hope and pray that one day we will be back in SC! Keep your fingers crossed!

Madi starts pre-school tomorrow, and soccer September 1st! Guess who is her coach! Yep, her daddy! This will be interesting!

Ashlyn started third grade and loves her new teacher! I do too, she is precious! They had Ashlyn's desk right in front the first day! She must have known that my oldest is a little talker :)
They do not have to wear uniforms this year, so Ashlyn could not be happier! I loved uniforms, but she did not!

We fed the ducks at my dad's house, and to put it blunt, these ducks were CRAZY! They chased us and would get as close to you as you would allow! We threw the bread at them and ran!




This was the hardest trip back! I left Ashlyn in South Carolina with her Dad. Ever since Ashlyn's father and I divorced, she has lived with me, and Robbie saw her every week. Basically whenever he wanted to, which was a lot. Ashlyn never wanted to move to Florida away from all of the family, her friends and the church! I made a deal with her and told her that she had to give it at least 6 months, and if she still felt unhappy, that we would talk about her living with her Dad. Robbie and his family have always been a huge part of her life, and his parents are like a second set of parents to her. They are truly remarkable in the way they love that child as their own! Ashlyn tried Florida for 6 months, and still cried to go live with Robbie. I felt like someone had ripped my heart out of my chest! Ashlyn is very mature, and knows what she wants. I could tell that my child was miserable, and as a parent, that killed me! I will have her all summer, long school breaks, and any weekend that I choose to go get her! The roles have really reversed, and this is the hardest thing I have ever had to do as a Mom. The entire way home, I kept looking around thinking I was forgetting something! It was her! I do not like being here away from everyone, so how could I expect her to like it! I know that one day we will be back in the Carolinas, and then she will be able to go back and forth like she did last year. I did take her to meet her teacher, and I picked her up from school several times while I was there. We spent the entire days together, and I will miss that so much! I will not be able to put notes in her lunch box, or lay out her school clothes! Please pray for me that I will get through this! Luckily my girls are used to Ashlyn being gone every other weekend, so they just think Sissy is at Robbie's again. I will definitely be racking up frequent flier miles! I just wanted to share this with you so when you don't see Ashlyn in all of my pictures, you will know why. Also, so I could get your prayers. Ashlyn is taking piano lessons from my mom on Monday's, and spending a lot of time with my sisters! This does make it easier! I love you sweet girl, and Mommy will see you soon on your birthday in 3 weeks! Study hard and remember to use your manners! Always be a young lady, and don't forget to call your mommy before bed!

Saturday, August 16, 2008

Our "photo shoot"

We had so much fun today! The girls did great, and here are a few of our favorites!

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Sisters

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My 4 beautiful girls

My Dad helped me with the "photo shoot" this weekend! We are in SC for the last few days of summer!
Thanks for all the help Papa!
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Monday, August 11, 2008

TIRED!

Just got back from a long weekend in Naples,FL at the brother-in laws! Great weekend! I will post pictures in the morning! I am going to bed! Sleep tight!

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

A tooth!


Guess who has a tooth! Can you believe it? Allie Grace is only 4 months/2 weeks and already has a bottom tooth! No wonder she has been so fussy and not sleeping! It has already popped through and you can see the top of it! Too cute! I tried to take a picture, but it came out way to blurry! You will be able to see it very soon in pictures, I'm sure!

Monday, August 4, 2008

A big girl day!

Ashlyn always asks ,"Mommy, when can we go have big girl time?". Well, this day we did! Just the two of us! Bill got us 2 nights at the Nickelodeon Hotel and we had a ball. She even got slimed! It is hard for us to have free time now that I have the 3 little ones, so I really cherish days like this! I enjoy being with her and I can not believe how big she is getting! I can not believe my first born daughter will be 9 in September! Oh how time flies!